Hello there my lovely friends!

For quite some time I've been thinking about writing posts like this and as always I chose 'what will others think' instead of my wishes. I always try my best to think and be positive, I honestly do.
I think I never insulted anyone, I'll always find something good in anything, try to be as polite and as friendly as I can with everyone I meet, chat with or comment with, that's simply the way that I was raised and who I am in general. The older I get, the more friendlier and politer I am, I'm open for anything and almost everyone. And I've come to notice that not many people understand that anymore.
I'm not the only one that has experienced bad encounters, but that doesn't mean I should be rude and disrespectful to every random stranger when our paths cross. Am I one of the few 'old souls' that think kindness and politeness towards everyone hasn't died? Or am I just crazy and stupid?
The list of things that bother me is unfortunately miles long, and in this post I want to mention some of them.


Pozdrav lipi moji!

Već dosta dugo razmišljan o pisanju ovakvih postova i uvik bi do sad odabrala 'šta će neko reć' umisto moji želja. Uvik, baš uvik se trudin mislit i bit pozitivna. Mislin da nisan nikad nikoda uvridila, uvik pokušajen i uglavnon uspijen nać nešto dobro u svemu, ponašan se što pristojnije i prijateljski raspoloženo prema svakome koga sritnen, pričan ili s kime komentiran, tako san odgojena i takva jednostavno jesan općenito.
Što san starija, samo se više trudin, otvorena san prema svima i svemu. Davno san primjetila da sve više ljudi to ne razumi. Ja nisan jedina koja je imala neka loša iskustva i susrete, ali to ne znači da se triba bit nepristojan i neuljudan prema svakome s kojim se susritne moj put. Jesan li ja samo jedna od oni malobrojini 'stari duša' koja smatra da uljudnost i pristojnost nije izumrla? Ili san jednostavno luda i glupa? Lista stvari što me smetaju je nažalost miljama duga, a tu bi samo tila neke od njih spomenit. Prije toga želin se zahvalit The Red Queen na njenome postu i razgovoru. :) <3


So what pushes my buttons? First off, loud people.
Okay, yes, I am not blind nor deaf, I clearly see and sure as hell hear that you are talking on your phone.
Yes, you are being blessed with a phone call in public, now don't be crazy, take that blessed phone call right here in public and don't whisper, don't even try to talk, just shout, yes, shout so that everyone can know that someone is calling you, because someone cares about you. It doesn't matter even if it's a phone call from your phone operator and all you're hearing is a recorded voice, just make it obvious that you're the blessed one because God forbid somebody in public doesn't know your private things.
People that scream for workers in any stores. IS ANYBODY HERE WORKING? I NEED SOME HELP!!1! GOD DAMN IT WHERE DO I FIND XY?! HELLOOOOOOUUUUUUU.
Don't try to walk up to me and the girl working in the store and ask her to help you when she's done with helping me. No, just continue screaming, because that way she can feel not only confused and unorganized,
make her feel bad about herself. Don't even give her a second to say 'I'll be right back with you, need to...' to me, just scream for her. And after she's helped you don't you forget to tell her she does a shitty job and that she's a bad person for not jumping on your rude ass as soon as you walked into the store.
Be loud as much as you want IN PRIVATE, if you're outside in public, me and I'm sure a lot of different people would highly appreciate it if you'd just zip it.

Pa šta meni iđe na živce? Prvo, glasni ljudi.
Ok, da, nisan ni slipa ni gluva, jasno vidin a bome i čujen da pričaš na mobitel. Je, eto ti si sad blagoslovljen od Više sile telefonskin pozivon vani, sad nemoj bit lud, prihvati taj blagoslovljeni poziv ovde vanka u javnosti i nemoj se slučajno malo odmaknit od svih i šaputat, ma nemoj ni pričat normalnin tonon, deri se, da, deri tako da ja i svi ostali znamo da te neko nazva, jer se neko brine o tebi. Nije uopće važno niti ako te je nazva tvoj mobilni operater i samo su ti pustili snimjenu poruku, samo je važno da svima daš do znanja da si ti onaj blagoslovljeni, oslobodi Bože da neko u javnosti slučajno ne zna za tvoje privatne stvari.
Ljudi koji se deru za/na radnike u bilo kojoj trgovini. JELI OVDE IKO RADI? TRIBAN POMOĆ!!11!
PA JEBEN TI DI ĆU NAĆ XY? ALOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.
Nemoj slučajno učinit 5-10 koraka prema meni i radnici koja meni nešto objašnjava i zamolit je kad završi samnon da dođe tebi pomoć. Ne, jednostavno se deri, jer ako se ne dereš neće se samo zbunit i bit neorganizirana, deri tako da se i osjeća ko budala uz sve navedeno. Ma ni sekund joj nemoj dat da mi slučajno kaže 'Odman se vraćan Vama samo da...', ni sekund, samo deri. I da, nakon što ti pomogne sa svime nemoj joj zaboravit napomenit da ništa nezna i da je glupača jer nije odman doletila nekome tako glasnome i  nepristojnome čin si nogon kročio u trgovinu.
Ma budi glasan kliko god oćeš PRIVATNO, ako si vanka, ja i sigurno puno drugi ljudi bi vrlo cjenili ako bi začepio.



If I'm just randomly in your way in the store and I notice you and try to squeeze myself into the store shelves so you can pass me without touching me, make sure to stop, get into my face and scream AM I INTERRUPTING YOU?! No, no, no I didn't go into this store to buy something, I just had a feeling I might run into you YOU COMPLETE STRANGER. My body is 70% in the store shelves, yes, you are interrupting my happy shopping moment and creeping me out.
If I'm having a drink with a few friends and we're talking about private things, that surely is a sign that you, that random stranger 5 tables away from me is there to comment with us. After we've kindly looked at you and smiled, turned away into our CLOSED CIRCLE and stare at each other looking like this :/,
that has to be the sign that we want to come to our table. O_o"
Just, don't, don't invade my private space. I'm in a bubble here. Don't touch me.

Ako san ti se slučajno našla na putu u trgovini i primjetin te za par sekundi, potrudin se stisnit uz police da me možeš zaobić bez ikakvog dodirivanja, to ti je siguran znak da staneš kraj mene, uneseš mi se u lice i pitaš 'JEL IŠTA PRIKIDAN?!'. Ne, ne, ma ne brini se, nisan išla u trgovinu ništa kupit. Imala san osjećaj da ću BAŠ TEBE KOMPLET NEZNANCA srist i zato san tu došla. 70% moga tila je u polici trgovine, da, prikidaš moj sritan trenutak i izluđivaš me.
Ako san na piću sa prijateljicama i pričamo o privatnim stvarima, to je sigurno znak tev+bi, strancu 5 stolova dalje, da se uključiš u razgovor i komentiraš. A kad te sve pogledamo, nasmješimo se iz pristojnosti i instant se povučemo u naš ZATVORENI KRUG i sve izgledamo ovako :/, to ti je signurno znak da se primistiš za naš stol. O_o"  Ono ej, ej, nemoj mi ulazit u privatni prostor. zamisli da san u balonu. Ne diraj.

Here's a sensitive thing that Teky kind of mentioned, but, I just.

Još jedna stvar koju je Teky malo spomenila, ali ja, ono nemogu.







Okay, this isn't just me, but point your fingers at me and scream 'BAD, BAD GIRL', I don't care.
Wild kids. OKAY WILD KIDS. Kids running all over the store, knocking things down.
You bring your kid to a coffee place, a public coffee place that is smoker friendly and you scream at everyone to turn off their cigarettes because, we'll your kid is here. OKAY.
I'm walking somewhere and a random kid follows me. I turn around and ask where are your parents, because I'm honestly scared for kids running around town with no adults, I'm gown and scared to walk alone, let alone kids. And the kid kicks me and curses me.

Ok, ovo nisan samo ja, ali slobodno uprite prston u mene i recite da san ZLOČESTA, brige me.
Divlja dica. OKE DIVLJA DICA.Dica koja trču svugdi po trgovini i ruše sve.
Dovedeš dite u kafić di je dopušteno pušenje i skričiš da svi gase cigare jer eto ti si došla ovde sa svojin diteton. DOBRO. Negdi odan i neko me dite počne pratit. Okrenen se i upitan di su u roditelji, stvarno se bojin za dicu bez nadzora, ja san amoreć odrasla pa se bojin odat sama po gradu, kamoli dica. I to dite se okrene, udari me, obično me šutnu nogon i počne me psovat. 




WHEN I WAS YOUR AGE IF I GAVE A WRONG LOOK TO SOMEBODY I WOULD GET SLAPPED. YES, the 'when I was your age' thing is kicking in. Better that than a slap.
I'm against slaps and everything, but listen, when I was a kid and I didn't behave polite I'd get slapped.
If I cursed, I'd get slapped on my mouth. I'm 22 and now when I curse my mom slaps my shoulder and gives me 'the look'. You know the 'Say that one more time and I'm about to go ninja on your ass' look.
Kids are so rude these days and think they can get away with anything because they're small.
I'm not a mother, I know it's hard and takes a lot of time and effort into raising a child, but just, there are some limits, there are lines that should not be crossed, you shouldn't laugh if you're kid is swearing, you should tell them that it's bad. If it's knocking shit over, hitting strangers and running away from you I, I, if I had a child I'd wouldn't want that to happen, I'd talk with my kid and try to figure out what bothers him so much that he does that. Because you know, not all people are going to take crap from a kid, some people will not, like me, fight off the urge to knock you kid back to it's senses, they'll just do it.

KAD SAN JA BILA TVOJI GODINA AKO BI NEKOGA KRIVO POGLEDALA MENE BI SE PLESNILO. DA, 'Kad san ja bila tvoji godina' je u funkciji. Bolje to nego da pleskan okolo.
Ja san protiv pleskanja i sličnog, ali nu slušaj, kad san ja bila dite i nisan bila pristojna doletila bi mi ruka.
Ako bi opsovala, doletila bi mi na usta. Sad kad iman 22 godine ako opsujen mater me plesne po ramenu i da mi 'onaj' pogled. Znate onaj 'Samo još 1 to ponovit, vidit ćeš kako se privorin u nindžu' pogled.
Dica ovi dana su tako bezobrazna i misle da in more sve proć jer su mali.
Ja nisan mater, znan da je sve to teško, zahtjeva puno truda, vrimena i predanosti u odgoj diteta, ali ima granica, postoje linije koje se ne tribaju prilazit, zašto se smiješ kad ti dite psuje, sa psovkama će sigurno daleko dogurat u životu. Ako ruši sve što vidi, udara nepoznate ljude i biži od tebe, pa ja, ja, ja da iman dite nebi tila da se to događa, pričala bi s diteton da vidin šta mu toliko smeta da se tako ponaša. Samo da Vam kažen, neće Vam svi ljudi trpit sranja od dice, neće se svi, ko npr ja, suzdržat od toga da ga lupnu u stvarni svit, da ga doživi malo kako se ponaša, neki će to jednostavno napravit ko iz šale, bez suzdržavanja. 


Jokes. Okay, we all know I'm a joker, I like to laugh it all out, but jokes on other peoples private things are just wrong, rude and disrespectful. How inconsiderate do you have to be to joke on someones style, skin color, someones nationality, someones religion, someones sexuality? Okay here, listen.
I'm a 22 year old girl, I'm the average size and height, I like to wear all black clothes, I'm white, Croatian, Christian and I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4,5 years. I'm waiting for you to crack me up with your witty jokes. Come on.
I'm waitiiiiiiiiiingggggggggg.. No, yeah, okay, I got a few.
I wear all black, yeah, that sure doesn't mean I simply like black clothes, I must be summoning Satan and painting my nails in my free time. I'm Christian, so I must run along and tell people that aren't Christians that they're going to hell if they don't except my religion. But you know, you can't wear black and be Christian at the same time, that just doesn't work.
Does your life become instantly awesome if your disrespecting somebody else?
Those kinds of people just bother me, why can't we all be just a tad more accepting?
I mean, can't we just hug it out? No? I guess some people are just human, and I'm just one of the dancers.

Šale. Oke, svi već znate da se ja šalin, ja sve volin privrnit na šalu, ali šalit se na nečiji privatni račun je jednostavno krivo, bezobrazno i nepošteno. Koliko neobazriv tribaš bit da zbijaš šale na nečiji stil, boju kože, nacionalnost, nečiju vjeru ili sexualnu orijentaciju? Oke, nu, evo materijala.
Ja san cura od 22 godine, prosječne san građe i visine, volin nosit sve crno, bila san, Kršćanka, Hrvatica i iman momka skoro 4,5 godina. Ajde, da čujen. Ja evo sidin i čekan da me nasmijete šalama na moj račun.
Ajmo. Još čekan....... Nećete, ajde dobro, evo iman ja malo.
Nosin sve crno, to nemože jednostavno značit da volin crnu robu, to sigurno znači da u slobodno vrime, osim što lakiran nokte, prizivan Sotonu. 
Kršćanka san, sigurno trčin svugdi i ljudima koji nisu Kršćani guran pod nos svoju vjeru i uvjeravan ih da će gorit u paklu ako se ne priobrate. Ali nu, koji sudar, nemoš bit Kršćanin i nosit crno, to ne iđe. Bolje da se zamotan u štogod bile boje, da se vidi da san 'čista'.
Pitan se jeli Vam život postane instant odličan ako nečiji drugi život vriđate?
Meni to strašno smeta, zašto nebi svi bili malo više obazrivi na druge?
Zašto se ne zagrlimo i prihvatimo međusobno naše različitosti? Kako bi svit bio lipši i topliji.
Ali očito su neki ljudi samo ljudi, ništa posebno.